Fix Your Relationship Fast, No Doubts About It

If you’re wondering how to get your ex partner back but all you can feel is the pain of the situation, listen to this…

…Have your tried everything you can to make your ex partner reconsider their decision but as far as they’re concerned that don’t even want to talk to you? Believe it or not every relationship can be saved. It just depends on how you go about it.

It doesn’t matter what the reason is for the break up is. It can be sorted out so long as you can contain the pain and think before taking any action. Just about everyone makes the same mistakes when trying to save their relationship. Unfortunately this results in having an ex partner that no longer wants anything to do with them, and then just ignoring them totally. They then end up losing their mate for good. Don’t let this be you.

Now is the time to stop making the mistakes that lessen your chances and learn how to do it the right way.

So what is it that you truly want and why you want your ex back with you? Do you really love them? If so you must do your best to contain emotions now and avoid irrational behaviour and impulsive action. Acting in desperation is what makes things worst.

“So what do I do?”

This might not be easy to execute but you must let them go and show them that you’ve let them go emotionally. If you do this it will vastly improve your chances of getting them back. Show them that you respect and agree with their decision, and that you’re happy with the situation as it stands.

However, there are a few things that need to be avoided. Make sure you avoid contacting your ex at every moment. It is okay to speak to them now and again but it has to be small talk, happy talk for now, and nothing about the break up or you being together.

Getting under their feet and finding excuses to be in contact with them is not allowing them to know what it’s like to be without you. If you are calling, messaging and emailing them repeatedly you must stop right now. You might want to keep them in your life to avoid the reality of them slipping away but constantly contacting them will push them away fast. Your ex partner will not want to come back to a pushy, needy, whining individual that will not give them any space.

Let yours and their emotions settle, this is crucial, especially if your break up was a heated one. During the time that you’re apart you will both be forced into deciding what you really want. Use this time to work on yourself, by realising what is really important in your life, e.g. family, friends, the children, work and health. Make yourself attractive again.

These methods will turn things around fast.